HOLLIE MAY 🇬🇧

This post is super “important” to me because all through my entire life “I have dealing with standing out” with my Appearance, Sexuality. Opening up about Standing Out as your own individual embracing your difference is what ‘should be celebrated’ everyday. It’s not just about being “Disfigured” or a “Disability” also an “Invisible Disability”. We all know I’m Facially Disfigured that’s just a part of me. So this is all about “Being who you are truly” also “Knowing how comfortable with who you are” as a person.

It’s taken a huge amount of build up of self confidence & self courage on this topic however what’s said needs to be said also regonised. As a young women I have reached point that I am truly sick of being ask the same thing repeatedly, dealing with anyone uneducated & judgemental. Down to validation, reaction, attention or just being a straight up idiot with all ‘their might’. If this post can educate people or wake anyone up to realise with their own actions is disrespectful yet ignorant

If you “don’t understand” my appearance story or “why my face looks the way it does” your comments aren’t needed, walking past seeing people walk on by “touching the right side of their own faces” Like I can’t see it (in my glasses or not) whilst looking at me speaking quietly under their mouth like I can’t hear or see it. I can see it all it’s disrespectful I feel sorry for anyone’s “misunderstanding” that’s a “you problem”. I’m harmless quiting the judging & thinking I can’t see it Clearly I can see every single persons reactions to my appearance.

My face is a canvas you just haven’t “gotten to know me” to “fully understand* my chapters behind Who I Am as a person. I see everyone actin up I see it all! In person & online I know the right vibe & wrong vibes people.

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